Plato's Symposium
By Plato
Written 360 B.C.E
Translated by Benjamin Jowett
Persons of the Dialogue
- APOLLODORUS, who repeats to his companion the dialogue which he had heard from Aristodemus, and had already once narrated to Glaucon
- PHAEDRUS
- PAUSANIAS
- ERYXIMACHUS
- ARISTOPHANES
- AGATHON
- SOCRATES
- ALCIBIADES
- A TROOP OF REVELLERS
Scene
The House of Agathon.
Concerning the things about which you ask to be informed I
believe that I am not ill-prepared with an answer. For the
day before yesterday I was coming from my own home at
Phalerum to the city, and one of my acquaintance, who had
caught a sight of me from behind, hind, out playfully in the
distance, said: Apollodorus, O thou Phalerian man, halt! So
I did as I was bid; and then he said, I was looking for you,
Apollodorus, only just now, that I might ask you about the
speeches in praise of love, which were delivered by
Socrates, Alcibiades, and others, at Agathon's supper.
Phoenix, the son of Philip, told another person who told me
of them; his narrative was very indistinct, but he said that
you knew, and I wish that you would give me an account of
them. Who, if not you, should be the reporter of the words
of your friend? And first tell me, he said, were you present
at this meeting?
Your informant, Glaucon, I said, must have been very
indistinct indeed, if you imagine that the occasion was
recent; or that I could have been of the party.
Why, yes, he replied, I thought so.
Impossible: I said. Are you ignorant that for many years
Agathon has not resided at Athens; and not three have
elapsed since I became acquainted with Socrates, and have
made it my daily business to know all that he says and does.
There was a time when I was running about the world,
fancying myself to be well employed, but I was really a most
wretched thing, no better than you are now. I thought that I
ought to do anything rather than be a philosopher.
Well, he said, jesting apart, tell me when the meeting
occurred.
In our boyhood, I replied, when Agathon won the prize with
his first tragedy, on the day after that on which he and his
chorus offered the sacrifice of victory.
Then it must have been a long while ago, he said; and who
told you-did Socrates?
No indeed, I replied, but the same person who told
Phoenix;-he was a little fellow, who never wore any shoes
Aristodemus, of the deme of Cydathenaeum. He had been at
Agathon's feast; and I think that in those days there was no
one who was a more devoted admirer of Socrates. Moreover, I
have asked Socrates about the truth of some parts of his
narrative, and he confirmed them. Then, said Glaucon, let us
have the tale over again; is not the road to Athens just
made for conversation? And so we walked, and talked of the
discourses on love; and therefore, as I said at first, I am
not ill-prepared to comply with your request, and will have
another rehearsal of them if you like. For to speak or to
hear others speak of philosophy always gives me the greatest
pleasure, to say nothing of the profit. But when I hear
another strain, especially that of you rich men and traders,
such conversation displeases me; and I pity you who are my
companions, because you think that you are doing something
when in reality you are doing nothing. And I dare say that
you pity me in return, whom you regard as an unhappy
creature, and very probably you are right. But I certainly
know of you what you only think of me-there is the
difference.
Companion. I see, Apollodorus, that you are just the
same-always speaking evil of yourself, and of others; and I
do believe that you pity all mankind, with the exception of
Socrates, yourself first of all, true in this to your old
name, which, however deserved I know how you acquired, of
Apollodorus the madman; for you are always raging against
yourself and everybody but Socrates.
Apollodorus. Yes, friend, and the reason why I am said to be
mad, and out of my wits, is just because I have these
notions of myself and you; no other evidence is required.
Com. No more of that, Apollodorus; but let me renew my
request that you would repeat the conversation.
Apoll. Well, the tale of love was on this wise:-But perhaps
I had better begin at the beginning, and endeavour to give
you the exact words of Aristodemus:
He said that he met Socrates fresh from the bath and
sandalled; and as the sight of the sandals was unusual, he
asked him whither he was going that he had been converted
into such a beau:-
To a banquet at Agathon's, he replied, whose invitation to
his sacrifice of victory I refused yesterday, fearing a
crowd, but promising that I would come to-day instead; and
so I have put on my finery, because he is such a fine man.
What say you to going with me unasked?
I will do as you bid me, I replied.
Follow then, he said, and let us demolish the proverb:
To the feasts of inferior men the good unbidden go; instead
of which our proverb will run:-
To the feasts of the good the good unbidden go; and this
alteration may be supported by the authority of Homer
himself, who not only demolishes but literally outrages the
proverb. For, after picturing Agamemnon as the most valiant
of men, he makes Menelaus, who is but a fainthearted
warrior, come unbidden to the banquet of Agamemnon, who is
feasting and offering sacrifices, not the better to the
worse, but the worse to the better.
I rather fear, Socrates, said Aristodemus, lest this may
still be my case; and that, like Menelaus in Homer, I shall
be the inferior person, who
To the leasts of the wise unbidden goes. But I shall say
that I was bidden of you, and then you will have to make an
excuse.
Two going together, he replied, in Homeric fashion, one or
other of them may invent an excuse by the way.
This was the style of their conversation as they went along.
Socrates dropped behind in a fit of abstraction, and desired
Aristodemus, who was waiting, to go on before him. When he
reached the house of Agathon he found the doors wide open,
and a comical thing happened. A servant coming out met him,
and led him at once into the banqueting-hall in which the
guests were reclining, for the banquet was about to begin.
Welcome, Aristodemus, said Agathon, as soon as he
appeared-you are just in time to sup with us; if you come on
any other matter put it off, and make one of us, as I was
looking for you yesterday and meant to have asked you, if I
could have found you. But what have you done with Socrates?
I turned round, but Socrates was nowhere to be seen; and I
had to explain that he had been with me a moment before, and
that I came by his invitation to the supper.
You were quite right in coming, said Agathon; but where is
he himself?
He was behind me just now, as I entered, he said, and I
cannot think what has become of him.
Go and look for him, boy, said Agathon, and bring him in;
and do you, Aristodemus, meanwhile take the place by
Eryximachus.
The servant then assisted him to wash, and he lay down, and
presently another servant came in and reported that our
friend Socrates had retired into the portico of the
neighbouring house. "There he is fixed," said he, "and when
I call to him he will not stir."
How strange, said Agathon; then you must call him again, and
keep calling him.
Let him alone, said my informant; he has a way of stopping
anywhere and losing himself without any reason. I believe
that he will soon appear; do not therefore disturb him.
Well, if you think so, I will leave him, said Agathon. And
then, turning to the servants, he added, "Let us have supper
without waiting for him. Serve up whatever you please, for
there; is no one to give you orders; hitherto I have never
left you to yourselves. But on this occasion imagine that
you art our hosts, and that I and the company are your
guests; treat us well, and then we shall commend you." After
this, supper was served, but still no-Socrates; and during
the meal Agathon several times expressed a wish to send for
him, but Aristodemus objected; and at last when the feast
was about half over-for the fit, as usual, was not of long
duration-Socrates entered; Agathon, who was reclining alone
at the end of the table, begged that he would take the place
next to him; that "I may touch you," he said, "and have the
benefit of that wise thought which came into your mind in
the portico, and is now in your possession; for I am certain
that you would not have come away until you had found what
you sought."
How I wish, said Socrates, taking his place as he was
desired, that wisdom could be infused by touch, out of the
fuller the emptier man, as water runs through wool out of a
fuller cup into an emptier one; if that were so, how greatly
should I value the privilege of reclining at your side! For
you would have filled me full with a stream of wisdom
plenteous and fair; whereas my own is of a very mean and
questionable sort, no better than a dream. But yours is
bright and full of promise, and was manifested forth in all
the splendour of youth the day before yesterday, in the
presence of more than thirty thousand Hellenes.
You are mocking, Socrates, said Agathon, and ere long you
and I will have to determine who bears off the palm of
wisdom-of this Dionysus shall be the judge; but at present
you are better occupied with supper.
Socrates took his place on the couch, and supped with the
rest; and then libations were offered, and after a hymn had
been sung to the god, and there had been the usual
ceremonies, they were about to commence drinking, when
Pausanias said, And now, my friends, how can we drink with
least injury to ourselves? I can assure you that I feel
severely the effect of yesterday's potations, and must have
time to recover; and I suspect that most of you are in the
same predicament, for you were of the party yesterday.
Consider then: How can the drinking be made easiest?
I entirely agree, said Aristophanes, that we should, by all
means, avoid hard drinking, for I was myself one of those
who were yesterday drowned in drink.
I think that you are right, said Eryximachus, the son of
Acumenus; but I should still like to hear one other person
speak: Is Agathon able to drink hard?
I am not equal to it, said Agathon.
Then, the Eryximachus, the weak heads like myself,
Aristodemus, Phaedrus, and others who never can drink, are
fortunate in finding that the stronger ones are not in a
drinking mood. (I do not include Socrates, who is able
either to drink or to abstain, and will not mind, whichever
we do.) Well, as of none of the company seem disposed to
drink much, I may be forgiven for saying, as a physician,
that drinking deep is a bad practice, which I never follow,
if I can help, and certainly do not recommend to another,
least of all to any one who still feels the effects of
yesterday's carouse.
I always do what you advise, and especially what you
prescribe as a physician, rejoined Phaedrus the Myrrhinusian,
and the rest of the company, if they are wise, will do the
same.
It was agreed that drinking was not to be the order of the
day, but that they were all to drink only so much as they
pleased.
Then, said Eryximachus, as you are all agreed that drinking
is to be voluntary, and that there is to be no compulsion, I
move, in the next place, that the flute-girl, who has just
made her appearance, be told to go away and play to herself,
or, if she likes, to the women who are within. To-day let us
have conversation instead; and, if you will allow me, I will
tell you what sort of conversation. This proposal having
been accepted, Eryximachus proceeded as follows:-
I will begin, he said, after the manner of Melanippe in
Euripides,
Not mine the word which I am about to speak, but that of
Phaedrus. For often he says to me in an indignant tone:
"What a strange thing it is, Eryximachus, that, whereas
other gods have poems and hymns made in their honour, the
great and glorious god, Love, has no encomiast among all the
poets who are so many. There are the worthy sophists too-the
excellent Prodicus for example, who have descanted in prose
on the virtues of Heracles and other heroes; and, what is
still more extraordinary, I have met with a philosophical
work in which the utility of salt has been made the theme of
an eloquent discourse; and many other like things have had a
like honour bestowed upon them. And only to think that there
should have been an eager interest created about them, and
yet that to this day no one has ever dared worthily to hymn
Love's praises! So entirely has this great deity been
neglected." Now in this Phaedrus seems to me to be quite
right, and therefore I want to offer him a contribution;
also I think that at the present moment we who are here
assembled cannot do better than honour the. god Love. If you
agree with me, there will be no lack of conversation; for I
mean to propose that each of us in turn, going from left to
right, shall make a speech in honour of Love. Let him give
us the best which he can; and Phaedrus, because he is
sitting first on the left hand, and because he is the father
of the thought, shall begin.
No one will vote against you, Eryximachus, said Socrates.
How can I oppose your motion, who profess to understand
nothing but matters of love; nor, I presume, will Agathon
and Pausanias; and there can be no doubt of Aristophanes,
whose whole concern is with Dionysus and Aphrodite; nor will
any one disagree of those whom I, see around me. The
proposal, as I am aware, may seem rather hard upon us whose
place is last; but we shall be contented if we hear some
good speeches first. Let Phaedrus begin the praise of Love,
and good luck to him. All the company expressed their
assent, and desired him to do as Socrates bade him.
Aristodemus did not recollect all that was said, nor do I
recollect all that he related to me; but I will tell you
what I thought most worthy of remembrance, and what the
chief speakers said.
Phaedrus began by affirming that love is a mighty god, and
wonderful among gods and men, but especially wonderful in
his birth. For he is the eldest of the gods, which is an
honour to him; and a proof of his claim to this honour is,
that of his parents there is no memorial; neither poet nor
prose-writer has ever affirmed that he had any. As Hesiod
says:
First Chaos came, and then broad-bosomed Earth,
The everlasting seat of all that is,
And Love. In other words, after Chaos, the Earth and Love,
these two, came into being. Also Parmenides sings of
Generation:
First in the train of gods, he fashioned Love. And Acusilaus
agrees with Hesiod. Thus numerous are the witnesses who
acknowledge Love to be the eldest of the gods. And not only
is he the eldest, he is also the source of the greatest
benefits to us. For I know not any greater blessing to a
young man who is beginning life than a virtuous lover or to
the lover than a beloved youth. For the principle which
ought to be the guide of men who would nobly live at
principle, I say, neither kindred, nor honour, nor wealth,
nor any other motive is able to implant so well as love. Of
what am I speaking? Of the sense of honour and dishonour,
without which neither states nor individuals ever do any
good or great work. And I say that a lover who is detected
in doing any dishonourable act, or submitting through
cowardice when any dishonour is done to him by another, will
be more pained at being detected by his beloved than at
being seen by his father, or by his companions, or by any
one else. The beloved too, when he is found in any
disgraceful situation, has the same feeling about his lover.
And if there were only some way of contriving that a state
or an army should be made up of lovers and their loves, they
would be the very best governors of their own city,
abstaining from all dishonour, and emulating one another in
honour; and when fighting at each other's side, although a
mere handful, they would overcome the world. For what lover
would not choose rather to be seen by all mankind than by
his beloved, either when abandoning his post or throwing
away his arms? He would be ready to die a thousand deaths
rather than endure this. Or who would desert his beloved or
fail him in the hour of danger? The veriest coward would
become an inspired hero, equal to the bravest, at such a
time; Love would inspire him. That courage which, as Homer
says, the god breathes into the souls of some heroes, Love
of his own nature infuses into the lover.
Love will make men dare to die for their beloved-love alone;
and women as well as men. Of this, Alcestis, the daughter of
Pelias, is a monument to all Hellas; for she was willing to
lay down her life on behalf of her husband, when no one else
would, although he had a father and mother; but the
tenderness of her love so far exceeded theirs, that she made
them seem to be strangers in blood to their own son, and in
name only related to him; and so noble did this action of
hers appear to the gods, as well as to men, that among the
many who have done virtuously she is one of the very few to
whom, in admiration of her noble action, they have granted
the privilege of returning alive to earth; such exceeding
honour is paid by the gods to the devotion and virtue of
love. But Orpheus, the son of Oeagrus, the harper, they sent
empty away, and presented to him an apparition only of her
whom he sought, but herself they would not give up, because
he showed no spirit; he was only a harp-player, and did
not-dare like Alcestis to die for love, but was contriving
how he might enter hades alive; moreover, they afterwards
caused him to suffer death at the hands of women, as the
punishment of his cowardliness. Very different was the
reward of the true love of Achilles towards his lover
Patroclus-his lover and not his love (the notion that
Patroclus was the beloved one is a foolish error into which
Aeschylus has fallen, for Achilles was surely the fairer of
the two, fairer also than all the other heroes; and, as
Homer informs us, he was still beardless, and younger far).
And greatly as the gods honour the virtue of love, still the
return of love on the part of the beloved to the lover is
more admired and valued and rewarded by them, for the lover
is more divine; because he is inspired by God. Now Achilles
was quite aware, for he had been told by his mother, that he
might avoid death and return home, and live to a good old
age, if he abstained from slaying Hector. Nevertheless he
gave his life to revenge his friend, and dared to die, not
only in his defence, but after he was dead Wherefore the
gods honoured him even above Alcestis, and sent him to the
Islands of the Blest. These are my reasons for affirming
that Love is the eldest and noblest and mightiest of the
gods; and the chiefest author and giver of virtue in life,
and of happiness after death.
This, or something like this, was the speech of Phaedrus;
and some other speeches followed which Aristodemus did not
remember; the next which he repeated was that of Pausanias.
Phaedrus, he said, the argument has not been set before us,
I think, quite in the right form;-we should not be called
upon to praise Love in such an indiscriminate manner. If
there were only one Love, then what you said would be well
enough; but since there are more Loves than one,-should have
begun by determining which of them was to be the theme of
our praises. I will amend this defect; and first of all I
would tell you which Love is deserving of praise, and then
try to hymn the praiseworthy one in a manner worthy of him.
For we all know that Love is inseparable from Aphrodite, and
if there were only one Aphrodite there would be only one
Love; but as there are two goddesses there must be two
Loves.
And am I not right in asserting that there are two
goddesses? The elder one, having no mother, who is called
the heavenly Aphrodite-she is the daughter of Uranus; the
younger, who is the daughter of Zeus and Dione-her we call
common; and the Love who is her fellow-worker is rightly
named common, as the other love is called heavenly. All the
gods ought to have praise given to them, but not without
distinction of their natures; and therefore I must try to
distinguish the characters of the two Loves. Now actions
vary according to the manner of their performance. Take, for
example, that which we are now doing, drinking, singing and
talking these actions are not in themselves either good or
evil, but they turn out in this or that way according to the
mode of performing them; and when well done they are good,
and when wrongly done they are evil; and in like manner not
every love, but only that which has a noble purpose, is
noble and worthy of praise. The Love who is the offspring of
the common Aphrodite is essentially common, and has no
discrimination, being such as the meaner sort of men feel,
and is apt to be of women as well as of youths, and is of
the body rather than of the soul-the most foolish beings are
the objects of this love which desires only to gain an end,
but never thinks of accomplishing the end nobly, and
therefore does good and evil quite indiscriminately. The
goddess who is his mother is far younger than the other, and
she was born of the union of the male and female, and
partakes of both.
But the offspring of the heavenly Aphrodite is derived from
a mother in whose birth the female has no part,-she is from
the male only; this is that love which is of youths, and the
goddess being older, there is nothing of wantonness in her.
Those who are inspired by this love turn to the male, and
delight in him who is the more valiant and intelligent
nature; any one may recognise the pure enthusiasts in the
very character of their attachments. For they love not boys,
but intelligent, beings whose reason is beginning to be
developed, much about the time at which their beards begin
to grow. And in choosing young men to be their companions,
they mean to be faithful to them, and pass their whole life
in company with them, not to take them in their
inexperience, and deceive them, and play the fool with them,
or run away from one to another of them. But the love of
young boys should be forbidden by law, because their future
is uncertain; they may turn out good or bad, either in body
or soul, and much noble enthusiasm may be thrown away upon
them; in this matter the good are a law to themselves, and
the coarser sort of lovers ought to be restrained by force;
as we restrain or attempt to restrain them from fixing their
affections on women of free birth. These are the persons who
bring a reproach on love; and some have been led to deny the
lawfulness of such attachments because they see the
impropriety and evil of them; for surely nothing that is
decorously and lawfully done can justly be censured.
Now here and in Lacedaemon the rules about love are
perplexing, but in most cities they are simple and easily
intelligible; in Elis and Boeotia, and in countries having
no gifts of eloquence, they are very straightforward; the
law is simply in favour of these connexions, and no one,
whether young or old, has anything to say to their
discredit; the reason being, as I suppose, that they are men
of few words in those parts, and therefore the lovers do not
like the trouble of pleading their suit. In Ionia and other
places, and generally in countries which are subject to the
barbarians, the custom is held to be dishonourable; loves of
youths share the evil repute in which philosophy and
gymnastics are held because they are inimical to tyranny;
for the interests of rulers require that their subjects
should be poor in spirit and that there should be no strong
bond of friendship or society among them, which love, above
all other motives, is likely to inspire, as our Athenian
tyrants-learned by experience; for the love of Aristogeiton
and the constancy of Harmodius had strength which undid
their power. And, therefore, the ill-repute into which these
attachments have fallen is to be ascribed to the evil
condition of those who make them to be ill-reputed; that is
to say, to the self-seeking of the governors and the
cowardice of the governed; on the other hand, the
indiscriminate honour which is given to them in some
countries is attributable to the laziness of those who hold
this opinion of them. In our own country a far better
principle prevails, but, as I was saying, the explanation of
it is rather perplexing. For, observe that open loves are
held to be more honourable than secret ones, and that the
love of the noblest and highest, even if their persons are
less beautiful than others, is especially honourable.
Consider, too, how great is the encouragement which all the
world gives to the lover; neither is he supposed to be doing
anything dishonourable; but if he succeeds he is praised,
and if he fail he is blamed. And in the pursuit of his love
the custom of mankind allows him to do many strange things,
which philosophy would bitterly censure if they were done
from any motive of interest, or wish for office or power. He
may pray, and entreat, and supplicate, and swear, and lie on
a mat at the door, and endure a slavery worse than that of
any slave-in any other case friends and enemies would be
equally ready to prevent him, but now there is no friend who
will be ashamed of him and admonish him, and no enemy will
charge him with meanness or flattery; the actions of a lover
have a grace which ennobles them; and custom has decided
that they are highly commendable and that there no loss of
character in them; and, what is strangest of all, he only
may swear and forswear himself (so men say), and the gods
will forgive his transgression, for there is no such thing
as a lover's oath. Such is the entire liberty which gods and
men have allowed the lover, according to the custom which
prevails in our part of the world. From this point of view a
man fairly argues in Athens to love and to be loved is held
to be a very honourable thing. But when parents forbid their
sons to talk with their lovers, and place them under a
tutor's care, who is appointed to see to these things, and
their companions and equals cast in their teeth anything of
the sort which they may observe, and their elders refuse to
silence the reprovers and do not rebuke them-any one who
reflects on all this will, on the contrary, think that we
hold these practices to be most disgraceful. But, as I was
saying at first, the truth as I imagine is, that whether
such practices are honourable or whether they are
dishonourable is not a simple question; they are honourable
to him who follows them honourably, dishonourable to him who
follows them dishonourably. There is dishonour in yielding
to the evil, or in an evil manner; but there is honour in
yielding to the good, or in an honourable manner.
Evil is the vulgar lover who loves the body rather than the
soul, inasmuch as he is not even stable, because he loves a
thing which is in itself unstable, and therefore when the
bloom of youth which he was desiring is over, he takes wing
and flies away, in spite of all his words and promises;
whereas the love of the noble disposition is life-long, for
it becomes one with the everlasting. The custom of our
country would have both of them proven well and truly, and
would have us yield to the one sort of lover and avoid the
other, and therefore encourages some to pursue, and others
to fly; testing both the lover and beloved in contests and
trials, until they show to which of the two classes they
respectively belong. And this is the reason why, in the
first place, a hasty attachment is held to be dishonourable,
because time is the true test of this as of most other
things; and secondly there is a dishonour in being overcome
by the love of money, or of wealth, or of political power,
whether a man is frightened into surrender by the loss of
them, or, having experienced the benefits of money and
political corruption, is unable to rise above the seductions
of them. For none of these things are of a permanent or
lasting nature; not to mention that no generous friendship
ever sprang from them. There remains, then, only one way of
honourable attachment which custom allows in the beloved,
and this is the way of virtue; for as we admitted that any
service which the lover does to him is not to be accounted
flattery or a dishonour to himself, so the beloved has one
way only of voluntary service which is not dishonourable,
and this is virtuous service.
For we have a custom, and according to our custom any one
who does service to another under the idea that he will be
improved by him either in wisdom, or, in some other
particular of virtue-such a voluntary service, I say, is not
to be regarded as a dishonour, and is not open to the charge
of flattery. And these two customs, one the love of youth,
and the other the practice of philosophy and virtue in
general, ought to meet in one, and then the beloved may
honourably indulge the lover. For when the lover and beloved
come together, having each of them a law, and the lover
thinks that he is right in doing any service which he can to
his gracious loving one; and the other that he is right in
showing any kindness which he can to him who is making him
wise and good; the one capable of communicating wisdom and
virtue, the other seeking to acquire them with a view to
education and wisdom, when the two laws of love are
fulfilled and meet in one-then, and then only, may the
beloved yield with honour to the lover. Nor when love is of
this disinterested sort is there any disgrace in being
deceived, but in every other case there is equal disgrace in
being or not being deceived. For he who is gracious to his
lover under the impression that he is rich, and is
disappointed of his gains because he turns out to be poor,
is disgraced all the same: for he has done his best to show
that he would give himself up to any one's "uses base" for
the sake of money; but this is not honourable. And on the
same principle he who gives himself to a lover because he is
a good man, and in the hope that he will be improved by his
company, shows himself to be virtuous, even though the
object of his affection turn out to be a villain, and to
have no virtue; and if he is deceived he has committed a
noble error. For he has proved that for his part he will do
anything for anybody with a view to virtue and improvement,
than which there can be nothing nobler. Thus noble in every
case is the acceptance of another for the sake of virtue.
This is that love which is the love of the heavenly godess,
and is heavenly, and of great price to individuals and
cities, making the lover and the beloved alike eager in the
work of their own improvement. But all other loves are the
offspring of the other, who is the common goddess. To you,
Phaedrus, I offer this my contribution in praise of love,
which is as good as I could make extempore.
Pausanias came to a pause-this is the balanced way in which
I have been taught by the wise to speak; and Aristodemus
said that the turn of Aristophanes was next, but either he
had eaten too much, or from some other cause he had the
hiccough, and was obliged to change turns with Eryximachus
the physician, who was reclining on the couch below him.
Eryximachus, he said, you ought either to stop my hiccough,
or to speak in my turn until I have left off.
I will do both, said Eryximachus: I will speak in your turn,
and do you speak in mine; and while I am speaking let me
recommend you to hold your breath, and if after you have
done so for some time the hiccough is no better, then gargle
with a little water; and if it still continues, tickle your
nose with something and sneeze; and if you sneeze once or
twice, even the most violent hiccough is sure to go. I will
do as you prescribe, said Aristophanes, and now get on.
Eryximachus spoke as follows: Seeing that Pausanias made a
fair beginning, and but a lame ending, I must endeavour to
supply his deficiency. I think that he has rightly
distinguished two kinds of love. But my art further informs
me that the double love is not merely an affection of the
soul of man towards the fair, or towards anything, but is to
be found in the bodies of all animals and in productions of
the earth, and I may say in all that is; such is the
conclusion which I seem to have gathered from my own art of
medicine, whence I learn how great and wonderful and
universal is the deity of love, whose empire extends over
all things, divine as well as human. And from medicine I
would begin that I may do honour to my art. There are in the
human body these two kinds of love, which are confessedly
different and unlike, and being unlike, they have loves and
desires which are unlike; and the desire of the healthy is
one, and the desire of the diseased is another; and as
Pausanias was just now saying that to indulge good men is
honourable, and bad men dishonourable:-so too in the body
the good and healthy elements are to be indulged, and the
bad elements and the elements of disease are not to be
indulged, but discouraged. And this is what the physician
has to do, and in this the art of medicine consists: for
medicine may be regarded generally as the knowledge of the
loves and desires of the body, and how to satisfy them or
not; and the best physician is he who is able to separate
fair love from foul, or to convert one into the other; and
he who knows how to eradicate and how to implant love,
whichever is required, and can reconcile the most hostile
elements in the constitution and make them loving friends,
is skilful practitioner. Now the: most hostile are the most
opposite, such as hot and cold, bitter and sweet, moist and
dry, and the like. And my ancestor, Asclepius, knowing
how-to implant friendship and accord in these elements, was
the creator of our art, as our friends the poets here tell
us, and I believe them; and not only medicine in every
branch but the arts of gymnastic and husbandry are under his
dominion.
Any one who pays the least attention to the subject will
also perceive that in music there is the same reconciliation
of opposites; and I suppose that this must have been the
meaning, of Heracleitus, although, his words are not
accurate, for he says that is united by disunion, like the
harmony-of bow and the lyre. Now there is an absurdity
saying that harmony is discord or is composed of elements
which are still in a state of discord. But what he probably
meant was, that, harmony is composed of differing notes of
higher or lower pitch which disagreed once, but are now
reconciled by the art of music; for if the higher and lower
notes still disagreed, there could be there could be no
harmony-clearly not. For harmony is a symphony, and symphony
is an agreement; but an agreement of disagreements while
they disagree there cannot be; you cannot harmonize that
which disagrees. In like manner rhythm is compounded of
elements short and long, once differing and now-in accord;
which accordance, as in the former instance, medicine, so in
all these other cases, music implants, making love and
unison to grow up among them; and thus music, too, is
concerned with the principles of love in their application
to harmony and rhythm. Again, in the essential nature of
harmony and rhythm there is no difficulty in discerning love
which has not yet become double. But when you want to use
them in actual life, either in the composition of songs or
in the correct performance of airs or metres composed
already, which latter is called education, then the
difficulty begins, and the good artist is needed. Then the
old tale has to be repeated of fair and heavenly love -the
love of Urania the fair and heavenly muse, and of the duty
of accepting the temperate, and those who are as yet
intemperate only that they may become temperate, and of
preserving their love; and again, of the vulgar Polyhymnia,
who must be used with circumspection that the pleasure be
enjoyed, but may not generate licentiousness; just as in my
own art it is a great matter so to regulate the desires of
the epicure that he may gratify his tastes without the
attendant evil of disease. Whence I infer that in music, in
medicine, in all other things human as which as divine, both
loves ought to be noted as far as may be, for they are both
present.
The course of the seasons is also full of both these
principles; and when, as I was saying, the elements of hot
and cold, moist and dry, attain the harmonious love of one
another and blend in temperance and harmony, they bring to
men, animals, and plants health and plenty, and do them no
harm; whereas the wanton love, getting the upper hand and
affecting the seasons of the year, is very destructive and
injurious, being the source of pestilence, and bringing many
other kinds of diseases on animals and plants; for
hoar-frost and hail and blight spring from the excesses and
disorders of these elements of love, which to know in
relation to the revolutions of the heavenly bodies and the
seasons of the year is termed astronomy. Furthermore all
sacrifices and the whole province of divination, which is
the art of communion between gods and men-these, I say, are
concerned with the preservation of the good and the cure of
the evil love. For all manner of impiety is likely to ensue
if, instead of accepting and honouring and reverencing the
harmonious love in all his actions, a man honours the other
love, whether in his feelings towards gods or parents,
towards the living or the dead. Wherefore the business of
divination is to see to these loves and to heal them, and
divination is the peacemaker of gods and men, working by a
knowledge of the religious or irreligious tendencies which
exist in human loves. Such is the great and mighty, or
rather omnipotent force of love in general. And the love,
more especially, which is concerned with the good, and which
is perfected in company with temperance and justice, whether
among gods or men, has the greatest power, and is the source
of all our happiness and harmony, and makes us friends with
the gods who are above us, and with one another. I dare say
that I too have omitted several things which might be said
in praise of Love, but this was not intentional, and you,
Aristophanes, may now supply the omission or take some other
line of commendation; for I perceive that you are rid of the
hiccough.
Yes, said Aristophanes, who followed, the hiccough is gone;
not, however, until I applied the sneezing; and I wonder
whether the harmony of the body has a love of such noises
and ticklings, for I no sooner applied the sneezing than I
was cured.
Eryximachus said: Beware, friend Aristophanes, although you
are going to speak, you are making fun of me; and I shall
have to watch and see whether I cannot have a laugh at your
expense, when you might speak in peace.
You are right, said Aristophanes, laughing. I will unsay my
words; but do you please not to watch me, as I fear that in
the speech which I am about to make, instead of others
laughing with me, which is to the manner born of our muse
and would be all the better, I shall only be laughed at by
them.
Do you expect to shoot your bolt and escape, Aristophanes?
Well, perhaps if you are very careful and bear in mind that
you will be called to account, I may be induced to let you
off.
Aristophanes professed to open another vein of discourse; he
had a mind to praise Love in another way, unlike that either
of Pausanias or Eryximachus. Mankind; he said, judging by
their neglect of him, have never, as I think, at all
understood the power of Love. For if they had understood him
they would surely have built noble temples and altars, and
offered solemn sacrifices in his honour; but this is not
done, and most certainly ought to be done: since of all the
gods he is the best friend of men, the helper and the healer
of the ills which are the great impediment to the happiness
of the race. I will try to describe his power to you, and
you shall teach the rest of the world what I am teaching
you. In the first place, let me treat of the nature of man
and what has happened to it; for the original human nature
was not like the present, but different. The sexes were not
two as they are now, but originally three in number; there
was man, woman, and the union of the two, having a name
corresponding to this double nature, which had once a real
existence, but is now lost, and the word "Androgynous" is
only preserved as a term of reproach. In the second place,
the primeval man was round, his back and sides forming a
circle; and he had four hands and four feet, one head with
two faces, looking opposite ways, set on a round neck and
precisely alike; also four ears, two privy members, and the
remainder to correspond. He could walk upright as men now
do, backwards or forwards as he pleased, and he could also
roll over and over at a great pace, turning on his four
hands and four feet, eight in all, like tumblers going over
and over with their legs in the air; this was when he wanted
to run fast. Now the sexes were three, and such as I have
described them; because the sun, moon, and earth are
three;-and the man was originally the child of the sun, the
woman of the earth, and the man-woman of the moon, which is
made up of sun and earth, and they were all round and moved
round and round: like their parents. Terrible was their
might and strength, and the thoughts of their hearts were
great, and they made an attack upon the gods; of them is
told the tale of Otys and Ephialtes who, as Homer says,
dared to scale heaven, and would have laid hands upon the
gods. Doubt reigned in the celestial councils. Should they
kill them and annihilate the race with thunderbolts, as they
had done the giants, then there would be an end of the
sacrifices and worship which men offered to them; but, on
the other hand, the gods could not suffer their insolence to
be unrestrained.
At last, after a good deal of reflection, Zeus discovered a
way. He said: "Methinks I have a plan which will humble
their pride and improve their manners; men shall continue to
exist, but I will cut them in two and then they will be
diminished in strength and increased in numbers; this will
have the advantage of making them more profitable to us.
They shall walk upright on two legs, and if they continue
insolent and will not be quiet, I will split them again and
they shall hop about on a single leg." He spoke and cut men
in two, like a sorb-apple which is halved for pickling, or
as you might divide an egg with a hair; and as he cut them
one after another, he bade Apollo give the face and the half
of the neck a turn in order that the man might contemplate
the section of himself: he would thus learn a lesson of
humility. Apollo was also bidden to heal their wounds and
compose their forms. So he gave a turn to the face and
pulled the skin from the sides all over that which in our
language is called the belly, like the purses which draw in,
and he made one mouth at the centre, which he fastened in a
knot (the same which is called the navel); he also moulded
the breast and took out most of the wrinkles, much as a
shoemaker might smooth leather upon a last; he left a few,
however, in the region of the belly and navel, as a memorial
of the primeval state. After the division the two parts of
man, each desiring his other half, came together, and
throwing their arms about one another, entwined in mutual
embraces, longing to grow into one, they were on the point
of dying from hunger and self-neglect, because they did not
like to do anything apart; and when one of the halves died
and the other survived, the survivor sought another mate,
man or woman as we call them, being the sections of entire
men or women, and clung to that. They were being destroyed,
when Zeus in pity of them invented a new plan: he turned the
parts of generation round to the front, for this had not
been always their position and they sowed the seed no longer
as hitherto like grasshoppers in the ground, but in one
another; and after the transposition the male generated in
the female in order that by the mutual embraces of man and
woman they might breed, and the race might continue; or if
man came to man they might be satisfied, and rest, and go
their ways to the business of life: so ancient is the desire
of one another which is implanted in us, reuniting our
original nature, making one of two, and healing the state of
man.
Each of us when separated, having one side only, like a flat
fish, is but the indenture of a man, and he is always
looking for his other half. Men who are a section of that
double nature which was once called Androgynous are lovers
of women; adulterers are generally of this breed, and also
adulterous women who lust after men: the women who are a
section of the woman do not care for men, but have female
attachments; the female companions are of this sort. But
they who are a section of the male follow the male, and
while they are young, being slices of the original man, they
hang about men and embrace them, and they are themselves the
best of boys and youths, because they have the most manly
nature. Some indeed assert that they are shameless, but this
is not true; for they do not act thus from any want of
shame, but because they are valiant and manly, and have a
manly countenance, and they embrace that which is like them.
And these when they grow up become our statesmen, and these
only, which is a great proof of the truth of what I am
saving. When they reach manhood they are loves of youth, and
are not naturally inclined to marry or beget children,-if at
all, they do so only in obedience to the law; but they are
satisfied if they may be allowed to live with one another
unwedded; and such a nature is prone to love and ready to
return love, always embracing that which is akin to him. And
when one of them meets with his other half, the actual half
of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of
another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and
friendship and intimacy, and would not be out of the other's
sight, as I may say, even for a moment: these are the people
who pass their whole lives together; yet they could not
explain what they desire of one another. For the intense
yearning which each of them has towards the other does not
appear to be the desire of lover's intercourse, but of
something else which the soul of either evidently desires
and cannot tell, and of which she has only a dark and
doubtful presentiment. Suppose Hephaestus, with his
instruments, to come to the pair who are lying side, by side
and to say to them, "What do you people want of one
another?" they would be unable to explain. And suppose
further, that when he saw their perplexity he said: "Do you
desire to be wholly one; always day and night to be in one
another's company? for if this is what you desire, I am
ready to melt you into one and let you grow together, so
that being two you shall become one, and while you live a
common life as if you were a single man, and after your
death in the world below still be one departed soul instead
of two-I ask whether this is what you lovingly desire, and
whether you are satisfied to attain this?"-there is not a
man of them who when he heard the proposal would deny or
would not acknowledge that this meeting and melting into one
another, this becoming one instead of two, was the very
expression of his ancient need. And the reason is that human
nature was originally one and we were a whole, and the
desire and pursuit of the whole is called love. There was a
time, I say, when we were one, but now because of the
wickedness of mankind God has dispersed us, as the Arcadians
were dispersed into villages by the Lacedaemonians. And if
we are not obedient to the gods, there is a danger that we
shall be split up again and go about in basso-relievo, like
the profile figures having only half a nose which are
sculptured on monuments, and that we shall be like tallies.
Wherefore let us exhort all men to piety, that we may avoid
evil, and obtain the good, of which Love is to us the lord
and minister; and let no one oppose him-he is the enemy of
the gods who oppose him. For if we are friends of the God
and at peace with him we shall find our own true loves,
which rarely happens in this world at present. I am serious,
and therefore I must beg Eryximachus not to make fun or to
find any allusion in what I am saying to Pausanias and
Agathon, who, as I suspect, are both of the manly nature,
and belong to the class which I have been describing. But my
words have a wider application-they include men and women
everywhere; and I believe that if our loves were perfectly
accomplished, and each one returning to his primeval nature
had his original true love, then our race would be happy.
And if this would be best of all, the best in the next
degree and under present circumstances must be the nearest
approach to such an union; and that will be the attainment
of a congenial love. Wherefore, if we would praise him who
has given to us the benefit, we must praise the god Love,
who is our greatest benefactor, both leading us in this life
back to our own nature, and giving us high hopes for the
future, for he promises that if we are pious, he will
restore us to our original state, and heal us and make us
happy and blessed. This, Eryximachus, is my discourse of
love, which, although different to yours, I must beg you to
leave unassailed by the shafts of your ridicule, in order
that each may have his turn; each, or rather either, for
Agathon and Socrates are the only ones left.
Indeed, I am not going to attack you, said Eryximachus, for
I thought your speech charming, and did I not know that
Agathon and Socrates are masters in the art of love, I
should be really afraid that they would have nothing to say,
after the world of things which have been said already. But,
for all that, I am not without hopes.
Socrates said: You played your part well, Eryximachus; but
if you were as I am now, or rather as I shall be when
Agathon has spoken, you would, indeed, be in a great strait.
You want to cast a spell over me, Socrates, said Agathon, in
the hope that I may be disconcerted at the expectation
raised among the audience that I shall speak well.
I should be strangely forgetful, Agathon replied Socrates,
of the courage and magnanimity which you showed when your
own compositions were about to be exhibited, and you came
upon the stage with the actors and faced the vast theatre
altogether undismayed, if I thought that your nerves could
be fluttered at a small party of friends.
Do you think, Socrates, said Agathon, that my head is so
full of the theatre as not to know how much more formidable
to a man of sense a few good judges are than many fools?
Nay, replied Socrates, I should be very wrong in attributing
to you, Agathon, that or any other want of refinement. And I
am quite aware that if you happened to meet with any whom
you thought wise, you would care for their opinion much more
than for that of the many. But then we, having been a part
of the foolish many in the theatre, cannot be regarded as
the select wise; though I know that if you chanced to be in
the presence, not of one of ourselves, but of some really
wise man, you would be ashamed of disgracing yourself before
him-would you not?
Yes, said Agathon.
But before the many you would not be ashamed, if you thought
that you were doing something disgraceful in their presence?
Here Phaedrus interrupted them, saying: not answer him, my
dear Agathon; for if he can only get a partner with whom he
can talk, especially a good-looking one, he will no longer
care about the completion of our plan. Now I love to hear
him talk; but just at present I must not forget the encomium
on Love which I ought to receive from him and from every
one. When you and he have paid your tribute to the god, then
you may talk.
Very good, Phaedrus, said Agathon; I see no reason why I
should not proceed with my speech, as I shall have many
other opportunities of conversing with Socrates. Let me say
first how I ought to speak, and then speak:-
The previous speakers, instead of praising the god Love, or
unfolding his nature, appear to have congratulated mankind
on the benefits which he confers upon them. But I would
rather praise the god first, and then speak of his gifts;
this is always the right way of praising everything. May I
say without impiety or offence, that of all the blessed gods
he is the most blessed because he is the fairest and best?
And he is the fairest: for, in the first place, he is the
youngest, and of his youth he is himself the witness,
fleeing out of the way of age, who is swift enough, swifter
truly than most of us like:-Love hates him and will not come
near him; but youth and love live and move together-like to
like, as the proverb says. Many things were said by Phaedrus
about Love in which I agree with him; but I cannot agree
that he is older than Iapetus and Kronos:-not so; I maintain
him to be the youngest of the gods, and youthful ever. The
ancient doings among the gods of which Hesiod and Parmenides
spoke, if the tradition of them be true, were done of
Necessity and not Love; had Love been in those days, there
would have been no chaining or mutilation of the gods, or
other violence, but peace and sweetness, as there is now in
heaven, since the rule of Love began.
Love is young and also tender; he ought to have a poet like
Homer to describe his tenderness, as Homer says of Ate, that
she is a goddess and tender:
Her feet are tender, for she sets her steps,
Not on the ground but on the heads of men: herein is an
excellent proof of her tenderness that,-she walks not upon
the hard but upon the soft. Let us adduce a similar proof of
the tenderness of Love; for he walks not upon the earth, nor
yet upon skulls of men, which are not so very soft, but in
the hearts and souls of both god, and men, which are of all
things the softest: in them he walks and dwells and makes
his home. Not in every soul without exception, for Where
there is hardness he departs, where there is softness there
he dwells; and nestling always with his feet and in all
manner of ways in the softest of soft places, how can he be
other than the softest of all things? Of a truth he is the
tenderest as well as the youngest, and also he is of flexile
form; for if he were hard and without flexure he could not
enfold all things, or wind his way into and out of every
soul of man undiscovered. And a proof of his flexibility and
symmetry of form is his grace, which is universally admitted
to be in an especial manner the attribute of Love; ungrace
and love are always at war with one another. The fairness of
his complexion is revealed by his habitation among the
flowers; for he dwells not amid bloomless or fading
beauties, whether of body or soul or aught else, but in the
place of flowers and scents, there he sits and abides.
Concerning the beauty of the god I have said enough; and yet
there remains much more which I might say. Of his virtue I
have now to speak: his greatest glory is that he can neither
do nor suffer wrong to or from any god or any man; for he
suffers not by force if he suffers; force comes not near
him, neither when he acts does he act by force. For all men
in all things serve him of their own free will, and where
there is voluntary agreement, there, as the laws which are
the lords of the city say, is justice. And not only is he
just but exceedingly temperate, for Temperance is the
acknowledged ruler of the pleasures and desires, and no
pleasure ever masters Love; he is their master and they are
his servants; and if he conquers them he must be temperate
indeed. As to courage, even the God of War is no match for
him; he is the captive and Love is the lord, for love, the
love of Aphrodite, masters him, as the tale runs; and the
master is stronger than the servant. And if he conquers the
bravest of all others, he must be himself the bravest.
Of his courage and justice and temperance I have spoken, but
I have yet to speak of his wisdom-and according to the
measure of my ability I must try to do my best. In the first
place he is a poet (and here, like Eryximachus, I magnify my
art), and he is also the source of poesy in others, which he
could not be if he were not himself a poet. And at the touch
of him every one becomes a poet, even though he had no music
in him before; this also is a proof that Love is a good poet
and accomplished in all the fine arts; for no one can give
to another that which he has not himself, or teach that of
which he has no knowledge. Who will deny that the creation
of the animals is his doing? Are they not all the works his
wisdom, born and begotten of him? And as to the artists, do
we not know that he only of them whom love inspires has the
light of fame?-he whom Love touches riot walks in darkness.
The arts of medicine and archery and divination were
discovered by Apollo, under the guidance of love and desire;
so that he too is a disciple of Love. Also the melody of the
Muses, the metallurgy of Hephaestus, the weaving of Athene,
the empire of Zeus over gods and men, are all due to Love,
who was the inventor of them. And so Love set in order the
empire of the gods-the love of beauty, as is evident, for
with deformity Love has no concern. In the days of old, as I
began by saying, dreadful deeds were done among the gods,
for they were ruled by Necessity; but now since the birth of
Love, and from the Love of the beautiful, has sprung every
good in heaven and earth. Therefore, Phaedrus, I say of Love
that he is the fairest and best in himself, and the cause of
what is fairest and best in all other things. And there
comes into my mind a line of poetry in which he is said to
be the god who
Gives peace on earth and calms the stormy deep,
Who stills the winds and bids the sufferer sleep. This is he
who empties men of disaffection and fills them with
affection, who makes them to meet together at banquets such
as these: in sacrifices, feasts, dances, he is our lord-who
sends courtesy and sends away discourtesy, who gives
kindness ever and never gives unkindness; the friend of the
good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the gods;
desired by those who have no part in him, and precious to
those who have the better part in him; parent of delicacy,
luxury, desire, fondness, softness, grace; regardful of the
good, regardless of the evil: in every word, work, wish,
fear-saviour, pilot, comrade, helper; glory of gods and men,
leader best and brightest: in whose footsteps let every man
follow, sweetly singing in his honour and joining in that
sweet strain with which love charms the souls of gods and
men. Such is the speech, Phaedrus, half-playful, yet having
a certain measure of seriousness, which, according to my
ability, I dedicate to the god.
When Agathon had done speaking, Aristodemus said that there
was a general cheer; the young man was thought to have
spoken in a manner worthy of himself, and of the god. And
Socrates, looking at Eryximachus, said: Tell me, son of
Acumenus, was there not reason in my fears? and was I not a
true prophet when I said that Agathon would make a wonderful
oration, and that I should be in a strait?
The part of the prophecy which concerns Agathon, replied
Eryximachus, appears to me to be true; but, not the other
part-that you will be in a strait.
Why, my dear friend, said Socrates, must not I or any one be
in a strait who has to speak after he has heard such a rich
and varied discourse? I am especially struck with the beauty
of the concluding words-who could listen to them without
amazement? When I reflected on the immeasurable inferiority
of my own powers, I was ready to run away for shame, if
there had been a possibility of escape. For I was reminded
of Gorgias, and at the end of his speech I fancied that
Agathon was shaking at me the Gorginian or Gorgonian head of
the great master of rhetoric, which was simply to turn me
and my speech, into stone, as Homer says, and strike me
dumb. And then I perceived how foolish I had been in
consenting to take my turn with you in praising love, and
saying that I too was a master of the art, when I really had
no conception how anything ought to be praised. For in my
simplicity I imagined that the topics of praise should be
true, and that this being presupposed, out of the true the
speaker was to choose the best and set them forth in the
best manner. And I felt quite proud, thinking that I knew
the nature of true praise, and should speak well. Whereas I
now see that the intention was to attribute to Love every
species of greatness and glory, whether really belonging to
him not, without regard to truth or falsehood-that was no
matter; for the original, proposal seems to have been not
that each of you should really praise Love, but only that
you should appear to praise him. And so you attribute to
Love every imaginable form of praise which can be gathered
anywhere; and you say that "he is all this," and "the cause
of all that," making him appear the fairest and best of all
to those who know him not, for you cannot impose upon those
who know him. And a noble and solemn hymn of praise have you
rehearsed. But as I misunderstood the nature of the praise
when I said that I would take my turn, I must beg to be
absolved from the promise which I made in ignorance, and
which (as Euripides would say) was a promise of the lips and
not of the mind. Farewell then to such a strain: for I do
not praise in that way; no, indeed, I cannot. But if you
like to here the truth about love, I am ready to speak in my
own manner, though I will not make myself ridiculous by
entering into any rivalry with you. Say then, Phaedrus,
whether you would like, to have the truth about love, spoken
in any words and in any order which may happen to come into
my mind at the time. Will that be agreeable to you?
Aristodemus said that Phaedrus and the company bid him speak
in any manner which he thought best. Then, he added, let me
have your permission first to ask Agathon a few more
questions, in order that I may take his admissions as the
premisses of my discourse.
I grant the permission, said Phaedrus: put your questions.
Socrates then proceeded as follows:-
In the magnificent oration which you have just uttered, I
think that you were right, my dear Agathon, in proposing to
speak of the nature of Love first and afterwards of his
works-that is a way of beginning which I very much approve.
And as you have spoken so eloquently of his nature, may I
ask you further, Whether love is the love of something or of
nothing? And here I must explain myself: I do not want you
to say that love is the love of a father or the love of a
mother-that would be ridiculous; but to answer as you would,
if I asked is a father a father of something? to which you
would find no difficulty in replying, of a son or daughter:
and the answer would be right.
Very true, said Agathon.
And you would say the same of a mother?
He assented.
Yet let me ask you one more question in order to illustrate
my meaning: Is not a brother to be regarded essentially as a
brother of something?
Certainly, he replied.
That is, of a brother or sister?
Yes, he said.
And now, said Socrates, I will ask about Love:-Is Love of
something or of nothing?
Of something, surely, he replied.
Keep in mind what this is, and tell me what I want to
know-whether Love desires that of which love is.
Yes, surely.
And does he possess, or does he not possess, that which he
loves and desires?
Probably not, I should say.
Nay, replied Socrates, I would have you consider whether
"necessarily" is not rather the word. The inference that he
who desires something is in want of something, and that he
who desires nothing is in want of nothing, is in my
judgment, Agathon absolutely and necessarily true. What do
you think?
I agree with you, said Agathon.
Very good. Would he who is great, desire to be great, or he
who is strong, desire to be strong?
That would be inconsistent with our previous admissions.
True. For he who is anything cannot want to be that which he
is?
Very true.
And yet, added Socrates, if a man being strong desired to be
strong, or being swift desired to be swift, or being healthy
desired to be healthy, in that case he might be thought to
desire something which he already has or is. I give the
example in order that we may avoid misconception. For the
possessors of these qualities, Agathon, must be supposed to
have their respective advantages at the time, whether they
choose or not; and who can desire that which he has?
Therefore when a person says, I am well and wish to be well,
or I am rich and wish to be rich, and I desire simply to
have what I have-to him we shall reply: "You, my friend,
having wealth and health and strength, want to have the
continuance of them; for at this moment, whether you choose
or no, you have them. And when you say, I desire that which
I have and nothing else, is not your meaning that you want
to have what you now have in the future? "He must agree with
us-must he not?
He must, replied Agathon.
Then, said Socrates, he desires that what he has at present
may be preserved to him in the future, which is equivalent
to saying that he desires something which is non-existent to
him, and which as yet he has not got.
Very true, he said.
Then he and every one who desires, desires that which he has
not already, and which is future and not present, and which
he has not, and is not, and of which he is in want;-these
are the sort of things which love and desire seek?
Very true, he said.
Then now, said Socrates, let us recapitulate the argument.
First, is not love of something, and of something too which
is wanting to a man?
Yes, he replied.
Remember further what you said in your speech, or if you do
not remember I will remind you: you said that the love of
the beautiful set in order the empire of the gods, for that
of deformed things there is no love-did you not say
something of that kind?
Yes, said Agathon.
Yes, my friend, and the remark was a just one. And if this
is true, Love is the love of beauty and not of deformity?
He assented.
And the admission has been already made that Love is of
something which a man wants and has not?
True, he said.
Then Love wants and has not beauty?
Certainly, he replied.
And would you call that beautiful which wants and does not
possess beauty?
Certainly not.
Then would you still say that love is beautiful?
Agathon replied: I fear that I did not understand what I was
saying.
You made a very good speech, Agathon, replied Socrates; but
there is yet one small question which I would fain ask:-Is
not the good also the beautiful?
Yes.
Then in wanting the beautiful, love wants also the good?
I cannot refute you, Socrates, said Agathon:-Let us assume
that what you say is true.
Say rather, beloved Agathon, that you cannot refute the
truth; for Socrates is easily refuted.
And now, taking my leave of you, I would rehearse a tale of
love which I heard from Diotima of Mantineia, a woman wise
in this and in many other kinds of knowledge, who in the
days of old, when the Athenians offered sacrifice before the
coming of the plague, delayed the disease ten years. She was
my instructress in the art of love, and I shall repeat to
you what she said to me, beginning with the admissions made
by Agathon, which are nearly if not quite the same which I
made to the wise woman when she questioned me-I think that
this will be the easiest way, and I shall take both parts
myself as well as I can. As you, Agathon, suggested, I must
speak first of the being and nature of Love, and then of his
works. First I said to her in nearly the same words which he
used to me, that Love was a mighty god, and likewise fair
and she proved to me as I proved to him that, by my own
showing, Love was neither fair nor good. "What do you mean,
Diotima," I said, "is love then evil and foul?" "Hush," she
cried; "must that be foul which is not fair?" "Certainly," I
said. "And is that which is not wise, ignorant? do you not
see that there is a mean between wisdom and ignorance?" "And
what may that be?" I said. "Right opinion," she replied;
"which, as you know, being incapable of giving a reason, is
not knowledge (for how can knowledge be devoid of reason?
nor again, ignorance, for neither can ignorance attain the
truth), but is clearly something which is a mean between
ignorance and wisdom." "Quite true," I replied. "Do not then
insist," she said, "that what is not fair is of necessity
foul, or what is not good evil; or infer that because love
is not fair and good he is therefore foul and evil; for he
is in a mean between them." "Well," I said, "Love is surely
admitted by all to be a great god." "By those who know or by
those who do not know?" "By all." "And how, Socrates," she
said with a smile, "can Love be acknowledged to be a great
god by those who say that he is not a god at all?" "And who
are they?" I said. "You and I are two of them," she replied.
"How can that be?" I said. "It is quite intelligible," she
replied; "for you yourself would acknowledge that the gods
are happy and fair of course you would-would to say that any
god was not?" "Certainly not," I replied. "And you mean by
the happy, those who are the possessors of things good or
fair?" "Yes." "And you admitted that Love, because he was in
want, desires those good and fair things of which he is in
want?" "Yes, I did." "But how can he be a god who has no
portion in what is either good or fair?" "Impossible." "Then
you see that you also deny the divinity of Love."
"What then is Love?" I asked; "Is he mortal?" "No." "What
then?" "As in the former instance, he is neither mortal nor
immortal, but in a mean between the two." "What is he,
Diotima?" "He is a great spirit (daimon), and like all
spirits he is intermediate between the divine and the
mortal." "And what," I said, "is his power?" "He
interprets," she replied, "between gods and men, conveying
and taking across to the gods the prayers and sacrifices of
men, and to men the commands and replies of the gods; he is
the mediator who spans the chasm which divides them, and
therefore in him all is bound together, and through him the
arts of the prophet and the priest, their sacrifices and
mysteries and charms, and all, prophecy and incantation,
find their way. For God mingles not with man; but through
Love. all the intercourse, and converse of god with man,
whether awake or asleep, is carried on. The wisdom which
understands this is spiritual; all other wisdom, such as
that of arts and handicrafts, is mean and vulgar. Now these
spirits or intermediate powers are many and diverse, and one
of them is Love. "And who," I said, "was his father, and who
his mother?" "The tale," she said, "will take time;
nevertheless I will tell you. On the birthday of Aphrodite
there was a feast of the gods, at which the god Poros or
Plenty, who is the son of Metis or Discretion, was one of
the guests. When the feast was over, Penia or Poverty, as
the manner is on such occasions, came about the doors to
beg. Now Plenty who was the worse for nectar (there was no
wine in those days), went into the garden of Zeus and fell
into a heavy sleep, and Poverty considering her own
straitened circumstances, plotted to have a child by him,
and accordingly she lay down at his side and conceived love,
who partly because he is naturally a lover of the beautiful,
and because Aphrodite is herself beautiful, and also because
he was born on her birthday, is her follower and attendant.
And as his parentage is, so also are his fortunes. In the
first place he is always poor, and anything but tender and
fair, as the many imagine him; and he is rough and squalid,
and has no shoes, nor a house to dwell in; on the bare earth
exposed he lies under the open heaven, in-the streets, or at
the doors of houses, taking his rest; and like his mother he
is always in distress. Like his father too, whom he also
partly resembles, he is always plotting against the fair and
good; he is bold, enterprising, strong, a mighty hunter,
always weaving some intrigue or other, keen in the pursuit
of wisdom, fertile in resources; a philosopher at all times,
terrible as an enchanter, sorcerer, sophist. He is by nature
neither mortal nor immortal, but alive and flourishing at
one moment when he is in plenty, and dead at another moment,
and again alive by reason of his father's nature. But that
which is always flowing in is always flowing out, and so he
is never in want and never in wealth; and, further, he is in
a mean between ignorance and knowledge. The truth of the
matter is this: No god is a philosopher. or seeker after
wisdom, for he is wise already; nor does any man who is wise
seek after wisdom. Neither do the ignorant seek after
Wisdom. For herein is the evil of ignorance, that he who is
neither good nor wise is nevertheless satisfied with
himself: he has no desire for that of which he feels no
want." "But-who then, Diotima," I said, "are the lovers of
wisdom, if they are neither the wise nor the foolish?" "A
child may answer that question," she replied; "they are
those who are in a mean between the two; Love is one of
them. For wisdom is a most beautiful thing, and Love is of
the beautiful; and therefore Love is also a philosopher: or
lover of wisdom, and being a lover of wisdom is in a mean
between the wise and the ignorant. And of this too his birth
is the cause; for his father is wealthy and wise, and his
mother poor and foolish. Such, my dear Socrates, is the
nature of the spirit Love. The error in your conception of
him was very natural, and as I imagine from what you say,
has arisen out of a confusion of love and the beloved, which
made you think that love was all beautiful. For the beloved
is the truly beautiful, and delicate, and perfect, and
blessed; but the principle of love is of another nature, and
is such as I have described."
I said, "O thou stranger woman, thou sayest well; but, assuming Love to be such as you say, what is the use of him to men?" "That, Socrates," she replied, "I will attempt to unfold: of his nature and birth I have already spoken; and you acknowledge that love is of the beautiful. But some one will say: Of the beautiful in what, Socrates and Diotima?-or rather let me put the question more dearly, and ask: When a man loves the beautiful, what does he desire?" I answered her "That the beautiful may be his." "Still," she said, "the answer suggests a further question: What is given by the possession of beauty?" "To what you have asked," I replied, "I have no answer ready." "Then," she said, "Let me put the word 'good' in the place of the beautiful, and repeat the question once more: If he who loves good, what is it?
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